From Trent Ling:
Disciples of Jesus may feel relatively fortified or even invincible as God relents from time to time. Unfortunately, many get fast and loose with the Gospel and its inerrant truths, confidently going about their own business, “Hey, if God’s good with me, why not…?” However, later, many painfully come to realize that God not destroying them did not necessarily mean that they had it going on. We must distinguish God’s mercy from God’s favor. Confusion of the two has culminated in an entire highway system leading the ignorant to very bad spiritual places.
“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9.
God mercifully bears with us. He gets no jolly getting after us or burying us. Waiting and waiting, God looks for us to get a clue and prove it through repentance. Look around the world. How many times do men wonder why God doesn’t intervene? Of course, when God joins in any fray, it goes catastrophically badly for mankind. He waits and waits, expecting our consciences and his Word to prevail from our own modest realizations and humilities. Rather than being emboldened for status quo by God not yet destroying us, let us take the opportunity provided by mercy to turn it around spiritually.
“May the Lord judge between you and me,” King David said to King Saul. 1 Samuel 24:12. On matters of dispute and disagreement, God will ultimately weigh in and judge. In such cases, God measures and metes out favor, not mercy. Those who misjudge mercy as favor receive a rude awakening from which they often never recover. You cannot go to battle armed with mercy for yourself. You have to take the favor of the Lord as David did. Along the same lines, Paul advised his brethren that he was “looking for what may be credited to (their) accounts.” Philippians 4:17. Paul knew that accounts with God resembled favor from God. Mercy is great, but comes with a ticking clock as Jezebel found out when her time to repent expired abruptly in Revelation 2:21.
Another law of sin even further exacerbates confusion between mercy and favor. “The sins of some men are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them.” 1 Timothy 5:24. The trailing sins, which eventually horse-collar and drop the sinner from behind, may have left the illusion to the nearsighted sinner that he was not in sin. Remember, just because we haven’t been tackled, arrested, and destroyed, does not mean that we are spiritually well. Consulted earnestly, the Scriptures would sort this out for us.
I highly recommend that sobriety be brought to bear: we are objects more earmarked for mercy than for favor. In humility, we should adopt the default position that mercy fits us and that favor seems too good for us. Then, we must follow the Spirit as confirmed by the Scriptures and talk out our deal and hear those with a clue according to the Bible (perhaps check out the audio podcast message, “Who’s Who?” to understand the indicators of someone with a clue).
Very unfortunately, like animals caught in traps (2 Peter 2:12), we who confuse mercy and favor shun the trumpet warnings which God so generously provides, and find ourselves beyond repair or willingness when the verdict returns that though we thought we were God’s favorite loyalist, God has merely been enduring us and awaiting our awakening to serve Him for real.
Please avoid and sidestep this common yet unnecessary trap of misunderstanding. Let us gear up, really think about it, and exceed the brute examples set by mindless wildebeests in this whirlwind life!
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Wow, where do I begin? I can start with ‘Thank You’ God because as it is written ‘favor seems too good for us’. Oftentimes I can’t decipher and that’s obviously not a good thing. It’s paralyzing to the Lord when he’s treating me one way and I think it’s another. It’s not fair to God and it ties his hands in such a case. The Lord Almighty himself should expect a Disciple of Jesus to know where he stands. Being in step with the Spirit matters and I oftentimes don’t slow down enough to get in line. I’m excited to change this immediately. Since sobriety is being recommended; that’s where I’ll begin. ‘Slow Down and Win’ is needed from me. Amen!
Around a month ago, I emailed the ministry about my lack of appetite to hear preached messages or discipline in praying (giving an example that I would make the effort to not be late for an office meeting, but late for God because I can’t see him??! That’s not honoring God!). But God, being rich in mercy, still gives me time to renew my attitude and get discipline in pouring things out for Him (time, heart, mind, everything!). My appeal to you who are convicted about taking God’s mercy for granted or confusing His mercy with favor to also renew your attitude, to repent while we are still given the time to do so. Love you.
Hey… that’s me on TV!! 🙂
That must be God’s favor that I was in the game at all! Ha.. ha…
Thank you Father! Your mercy is too great for words. For too long I had mixed up what your mercy is and I am sorry. Thank you as you continue to offer it to me, that I may completely repent and be what you need! Your kindness is like a fresh cool breeze on a hot day and your mercy like a water fall of cold water in the desert.
This is a wonderful article! I have failed so many times! Thinking mercy was a ticket to think “I’m ok” and that “God is with me” or “God approves of what I’m doing”. Well that didn’t go well! What amazes me is His patience through all of it! God really wants us to succeed! I am so hopeful to always give Him what He is expecting. There is a goal that God has with us and we really must understand His seriousness – in how we must be what we need to be!
It isn’t abnormal for me to think – me? Wow, Father, may I never fail you – like you have never failed me. Oh wait, there’s His kindness and mercy again.
God has proven time and time again to love us – is that not enough? Don’t abuse His mercy. Use His mercy.
Love you
Those of us that for years and years have only relied on God’s mercy know this to be true. Stretching that rubber band of his mercy more and more while life goes by will only lead to its breaking point (facing the consequences of our sins and God’s terrible judgment).
As Trent says, we should react to God’s mercy and patience for us with complete repentance, obedience, and total submission to Him. We can’t possibly be effective for God or even go to battle against the rulers, authorities, and powers of the dark (Ephesians 6:12), armed with only his mercy.
I really don’t want the Lord to look at his legion of soldiers and finally get to me and say “Hmm… he is not really adept for this mission or any other mission for that matter, so I think I’ll find someone else for the job.” Pathetic! I don’t want the Lord to endure with me anymore; I really want to be the Lord’s reliable warrior! I don’t know about all of you out there… but I am through having a mediocre spiritual life. I want to step up to my true calling, being a warrior of the Way, the Truth, and the Light!
Love you all,
Mel